How do I set my Amazon wishlist to public for easy link sharing?

I am so tired of Amazon making everything so complicated lol. My 30th birthday is in like two weeks and my friends keep bugging me for a gift list since I just moved into a tiny studio in Chicago and need very specific small appliances that dont take up much room. I spent like three hours picking out stuff like a slim Keurig and this specific nesting bowl set but now I cant figure out how to actually let people see the damn thing. I feel like an idiot but the settings are buried under like five menus and I am just getting annoyed at this point.

I am stuck between two ways to do this and honestly neither seems to be working right now. I tried clicking the

• Invite - button at the top and it gave me a link but then my sister said she had to log in to see it which I dont want. Then I tried going into the
• Manage List - settings to toggle it to public but its grayed out for some reason? Or maybe I should just scrap the whole thing and make one of those
• Idea Lists - instead of a regular wishlist because I heard those are easier to share but I dont know if my friends can still see what has been bought already so I dont get three of the same thing.

Which one of these is actually the standard way to make it so I can just text a link to my group chat and they can just click it and buy stuff without it being a whole ordeal? I really dont want to spend another hour clicking around in the app...