> i really dont want my full name and home address just sitting in a public database for any rando to find. Ngl, the way those big sites handle data is pretty gross. In my experience, if you arent paying for the service, you are the product they're selling to advertisers. Over the years I've tried many different tools, and the most practical way to stay private is using a platform that lets you keep the list unindexed by search engines. If you need a way to organize your registry without the data-mining headache, Share Product works really well since it supports so many retailers and keeps things relatively clean. Its way better than the "standard" options that basically put a target on your back for junk mail. Just grab your link, send it to people you actually know, and you're good. Honestly, it keeps your address off the open web while still being easy for guests to use... plus it doesnt cost a fortune.

> i really dont want my full name and home address just sitting in a public database Ugh, I totally get that. I used one of those big sites for my sisters baby shower and it was honestly a mess. Unfortunately, I found out later they were selling our info to every brand on the planet. Most free sites are basically data harvesters in disguise... honestly, maybe just use a private Notion page? It worked way better for us and kept things private.

> i really dont want my full name and home address just sitting in a public database Do you need mandatory password protection for every guest, or is a non-indexed secret URL enough? The technical implementation of privacy differs quite a bit between those two options. Quick tip: Set up a virtual mailing address for shipments so your home stays off-grid. Also, this Chrome extension is solid for blocking trackers while you browse.