How can I quickly send my birthday gift list to a group?

My 30th birthday is coming up in about three weeks and my family keeps bugging me for what I want but honestly Im so bad at this stuff. I started making a list on a piece of paper but then I realized I cant exactly mail that to everyone in my group chat because its like 15 people and some live over in Ohio while Im in Florida. So I was thinking maybe I should just type it out in a big text message but then if someone buys something how do the others know? I dont want to end up with three of the same coffee grinder even though I really need one lol.

My logic was that there might be some kind of website or app where I can just put links to the things I like-mostly stuff under $50 like books and kitchen gadgets-and then just send one link to the whole family. But then I got stuck thinking what if my grandma cant figure out how to open it or if she has to make a password? That would be a disaster because she gets frustrated so easily with her phone. Is there a way to do this where its just like a simple webpage they can see? Sorry if this is a really dumb question I just have no idea where to even start looking for something like that or if Im overthinking the whole thing... maybe a shared notes app? But I dont know if that works for everyone.